Sunday marks the end of the Jewish High Holidays with Yom Kippur, which could be renamed the Gift of a Second Chance. Jewish teaching here is tough, saying "do not bother telling God you are sorry until you have cleaned it up with the human who has been injured by your behavior, because God’s not interested." All of us have made mistakes but those mistakes shouldn’t get free rent in our minds, churning out shame and creating discord in our relationships. Jewish High Holy Days have some practical tips in achieving greater self- love and compassion for those we've tossed out of our love boat.